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You remember the last time he really looked at you.
Not a glance. Not a distracted nod from across the room. A real look. The kind that used to make you feel like the only woman in the world.
You are struggling to remember when that was.
Maybe it was before the second baby. Maybe it was before his new job. Maybe it was before life just... got in the way. But somewhere between the school runs and the midnight prayers and the cooking and the cleaning — something shifted.
And you do not know exactly when it happened.
He still lives in your house. He still eats your food. He still calls himself your husband. But the warmth is gone. The laughter is gone. The little things he used to do — calling you during his lunch break just to hear your voice, reaching for your hand in church, looking at you like you were his answered prayer — all of it has quietly disappeared.
And the worst part?
You cannot tell anyone.
You cannot tell your mother — she will say you caused it. You cannot tell your friends — they will gossip and pity you in the same breath. You cannot tell your pastor — you are afraid of how it will look. You are one of the strong women in that church. The one people come to for prayer. How do you explain that your own marriage is quietly falling apart?
So you smile on Sunday. You laugh at the fellowship dinner. You post photos on WhatsApp status. And at night — when the house is quiet and he is on his phone and you are lying two inches away from him feeling completely alone — you pick up your own phone and type things into Google that you would never say out loud.
"Why is my husband ignoring me at home."
"Signs your husb